Time To Pause

Kelly Anderson • November 5, 2019

A time to pause, a time for silence, is a time to hear one’s own voice

“Quiet is a think tank of the soul.” Gordon Hempton

During a recent cold spell, I took a walk along the Boise River and found the usual brisk air of autumn had turned brittle, the vibrant colors of the season suddenly muted, and a new quality in the sounds of nature. I was abruptly reminded that winter is coming, and I will welcome its arrival - it brings with it a time to pause, a time to rest.

Winter’s stillness wraps itself in a special kind of silence, a silence that encourages quiet reflection. With its unique quality, nature in the winter season is serene. And, while I’m not crazy about a deep chill, I do love serenity.

To me, the silence of winter is exceptional - exquisite. The silence of spring has an underlying roar as life bursts open. Summer hums and buzzes. And autumn softly rustles. But winter’s frozen landscape offers a tranquil silence, a silence so crystal clear that each penetrating sound pierces and shatters. This is a silence that invites presence.

In fact, acoustic ecologist Gordon Hempton believes that quiet is presence. Gordon studies silence and soundscapes, and he believes that silence is essential. Silence is not the absence of sound, but rather the absence of noise - the noise of distraction. I agree. And for me, winter is a sanctuary which offers that essential quiet presence. I think the stillness of nature’s winter holds a valuable lesson. Trees go dormant, bears hibernate, and we humans are offered the gift of pausing.

A time to pause, a time for silence, is a time to hear one’s own voice. Nobel Peace Prize recipient Malala Yousafzai is quoted as saying “We realize the importance of our voices only when we are silenced.” Although she spoke in the context of silence imposed by oppressors - a harsh and unwelcome type of silence, I believe that her words are also true when we seek silence. By going to a quiet place, we are able to hear our own voice - our inner voice - the voice of our heart. This is the voice which so often gets lost in the noise of distraction. But in silence we can listen to our voice and be guided back to ourselves - back to our own presence - back to what is essential.

Father John O’Donohue, who I turn to so often for his eloquent words, opened his book, Eternal Echoes , with the poem, Matins . In it he speaks to the beauty of the things wrapped in the gift of winter which I most treasure. These are the things which I hope a season of serenity and pausing will bring.


I arise today


In the name of Silence

Womb of the Word,

In the name of Stillness

Home of Belonging,

In the name of Solitude

Of the Soul and the Earth.

I arise today

(Excerpt from Matins by John O’Donohue)

Recommended Resources

On Being with Krista Tippett and Gordon Hempton ‘ Silence and the Presence of Everything

The poem “Matins’ begins the book Eternal Echoes: Celtic Reflections on Our Yearning to Belong by John O’Donohue

By going to a quiet place, we are able to hear our own voice - our inner voice - the voice of our heart

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